Why is it so hard for survivors to speak up?

Speaking about abuse is not just about words — it’s about reliving trauma, fearing rejection, and risking isolation. Survivors often face shame, disbelief, and even blame. Studies show that only 1 in 100 survivors in India report sexual abuse, especially when it occurs within familiar spaces like homes, schools, workplace or faith communities.

We believe silence is not consent. Every story deserves a safe space. 

Why do victims sometimes protect or return to their abusers?

This is a trauma response, not a character flaw. Survivors may experience trauma bonding, a psychological response where fear, manipulation, and moments of kindness from the abuser create emotional confusion.

Others stay silent because they’re told “not to ruin someone’s reputation” — especially when the abuser holds power in church or school settings.

But no one’s reputation is more important than your healing and safety. 

Why is wrong behavior often normalized or excused in faith communities?

Because silence protects the system. Harmful behavior is often hidden behind titles like “leader,” “elder,” or “family friend.” We’re taught to forgive and forget, but forgiveness should never silence justice.

When faith is used to cover abuse, it’s not real faith — it’s spiritual manipulation.

God stands for the vulnerable. So must we.